Friday, April 10, 2009

What now?


Gerald Robert Brown Sr.


Born - May 1st, 1938


Passed - April 9th, 2009


Sorry Pop, I wish had done more...

10 comments:

Unknown said...

You told me once live like today is the last day of your life...I took those words and I have started fresh...Your father isn't sitting in heaven thinking damn he should have done more...He is thinking what an amazing man i helped make and he is loving being with ur mom. So, in this moment of great sorrow...I encourage you to live like this is the last day of your life and love the people u love in ways they can never forget as u will never forget the way you were loved. You are an amazing friend and confidant those qualities don't happen by accident you are many of the things you are because they made you that way. Be proud of who you are because of who he was and feel loved when the wind blows by your face. Love you hun

Anonymous said...

Thank you Erin, I couldn't have said it any better...

Remember her words D. Pop was a good man and is exactly where he wants to be. Right next to momma.

Wonder Twin Powers..ACTIVATE! Form of...Someone who loves you beyond words!

J

Cory said...

Darren,

Just wanted to send you my sincere condolences. Thanks for the Marilyn Monroe birthday songs. The 1st year anniversary of my brother's death is coming up. I must say that even though it hurt, it was the most uplifting experience of my life. I have found God in a way I never thought I could. Annoint the rock with oil that your head rests on. The more you praise Him, and annoint it, the more He'll reward you. Your father lives, Darren. We aren't living yet until we leave this place. I hope you find encouragement and peace.

Anonymous said...

Beautifully worded, erin. Thank you.
Son, I love you and I'm praying for you. I know your pain.
Relish the wonderful lessons your parents taught you about life. Without a doubt, they did an awesome job, cuzz you're an awesome man. Rest in Jesus and in the fact that your dad left this earth knowing his work was complete and, knowing his and your momma's love will stay within your heart, forever.
Love 'n hugs,
Mom

Anonymous said...

Hey D,
I wish I could be there to comfort you. I agree with the other 2, there isn't anymore you could have done. Love is the ultimate gift you can give to someone and I'm absolutely sure that you've done that already. So his life was complete. I'm sure he would want you to live the rest of your life happy. So don't be sad for him. He's lived his the way he wanted and he's in a better place now.
I love you my dear dear friend. Take care and I am always praying for you.
Blessings, Joyce

Anonymous said...

D, you are loved by so many people and they are holding you up in thought and prayers right now. "Why" is always a good question at a time like this... I didn't know your relationship with your parents, but now I know from the comments of your friends that it was good.

I always cringe when people turn to talking about themselves at times like this, but I do want to share this... Although my dad was "there" for part of my life, and able to contact me for the rest of it, he was mentally ill and we could not get what we needed from him as a father. When we found out he died (5 yrs ago) I think my emotion was something like pity.. but I was not sad and I haven't missed him. It wasn't hard.

Having explained that, I want to say that even in your pain, your loss, those feelings beyond words, I think you are better off for having really loved and been loved by your parents. Miss them, cherish them, and keep them in your heart. Don't ever forget their loving legacy. Big hugs to you.
AW

Shannon said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please know that he is in a much better place and is watching over you now and will always be with you.

Anonymous said...

Pretty much everyone else said what I would say. You are in my thoughts and prayers. And always know, that no matter what, your dad will be watching over you everyday and continuing to be proud of the man you are.
Samantha

beav said...

Darren, I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much you loved and served both of your parents. Both of my parents have passed on as well and in response to your " What Now?" I have continued to talk to both of my parents ( while looking up ) and receive the necessary comfort to help when I need it most.

We ALL LOVE you and Leyen

Anonymous said...

Darren,
I dont think that there are words that exist in the dictionary that describe what you mean to me as a friend.. I am so sorry for your loss Darren.. I will try to contact you soon man.. Stay strong.. I love ya in the most manly way possible! ....... Peace ... . . . ... Marky